So, yesterday was Closing Ceremony. I have officially graduated the Mountain School and am back in my native Charlotte. I’m not going to go into too much detail about the closing ceremony, mostly because I know I’ll definitely get sad again. But, I thought it would be fun and kind of nice to create a list of advice for the next semester. So, here it goes (in no particular order):
- Don’t expect your time at Mountain School to always be great. There were definitely some hard parts that require a lot of motivation to get through.
- That being said, you should have great expectations for TMS, because you really will make lifelong friends. That’s not just a cliche they advertise on the brochure. It’s true.
- Try to take a walk with someone you don’t know very well once a week. A friend from my semester, Ben G., gave me this advice and it definitely helped me make some new friends that I otherwise wouldn’t have made.
- The schoolwork is hard, and there’s a reason for it. You will learn SO much from being at TMS. Do your schoolwork and do it well. You’ll earn the respect of your teachers and that’s really important in such a small community.
- If you want alone time, you have to seek it out. This was the hardest part of TMS for me. I really struggled with trying to balance my need for time for myself with my desire to hang out with my friends. You have to find a balance that’s good for you.
- Make an effort to become close to your dormmates. Chances are, they are the people you will wind up being closest to at the end of the semester. Make efforts to love them and get to know them.
- It’s totally okay to be overwhelmed by TMS. For a lot of the kids here, this was the first time in our lives when we were given full autonomy over our daily actions. There is a lot of physical and mental work, and it’s okay to let your body recognize that.
- Help Justin out with brunch at least once. You won’t regret it and it will be delicious.
- Find some way to record the memories of your time there. For me it was filming, for my dormmate Losel it was taking polaroids, and for others it might be journaling. Find your way to remember TMS.
- Actually try to get to know the faculty. They are some of the best people you will ever meet in your entire life. Go on a hike with Alden, help Liana plant tomatoes in the greenhouse, or help Gwynne find the always escaping rams.
- Try your best to not get summitted. It’s not a big deal if you do, but it’s just kind of a hassle. We had some incidents this semester where Summits caused some tension within the school, and it’s not really fun.
- Talk to people when you have a problem with them. This was one of the hardest parts of TMS. Usually, if I have a problem with someone, it’s very easy for me to just not talk to them anymore or ignore them. When you’re in a community of 45 kids, it’s not really possible. You have to talk through your issues if you want to get past them.
- Jump in Derby Pond at least once. It’ll be gross at first but it’s super fun.
- Don’t be scared of Solo. It’s probably one of the only times in your life when you’ll be able to go on a completely uninterrupted vacation for three whole days. You won’t run out of food and if you set up your shelter right, you’ll be good to go. Don’t underestimate how much you’ll read, though. I would suggest bringing 3-5 reasonably sized books with you.
- Don’t feel too guilty about ordering snacks and stuff from Amazon. No, it’s not good for the environment, but it’s also important that you’re comfortable. And don’t feel bad about getting packages from family and stuff. My sister sent me Moon Pies (a southern delicacy) and it turned out to be a great comfort food for me.
- Prioritize your sleep. You will need it here. You spend roughly eight hours on schoolwork (in class and homework) and about three hours doing hard physical labor. It is incredibly rewarding and so much fun, but very tiring. Take advantage of naps and sleeping when you get the chance.
- Try saying “yes” to things. During Final Reflections, this is something a lot of people said they wish they had done more. If someone asks you to go on a walk, say yes. If someone asks you for help splitting wood, say yes. You never know what kind of opportunities this will bring.
- Don’t wait to do your Science Site obligations until the last minute. Also, you will probably hate your science site by the end of the semester, and that’s completely okay.
- Take advantage of the fact that there’s no wifi in the dorms and read the books from the library, or journal, or talk to your dormmates.
- Take advantage of the 350+ acres of woods you have at your disposal. Go on adventures through the forest (but don’t forget to sign out first).
- Write letters to important people in your lives. I didn’t get to do as much of this as I wanted to, but I really wanted to be able to send letters to my favorite people.
- Remember to be appreciative and grateful that you get to be there. You are one of forty five who were selected among hundreds of intelligent, deserving students to be there. Remember to be thankful for that.
- Be appreciative of your classmates. If your semester is anything like mine, they will be some of the best people you will ever know. Love them and be grateful for them.
- In the words of Pat Barnes, get to know the place. This place will remain special to you throughout your entire life. It’s so special that alums come back and hold their weddings there. Cherish it for what it is.
Well, that’s all I can think of right now. I’m sure I’ll add to this list throughout the next couple of months. But that’s it for now. Thank you for taking the time to keep up with my adventures at TMS. I don’t plan to stop posting on this blog any time soon; the posts just might be a little less TMS-centric. And to the next semester, I wish you all the luck in the world and hope you discover the infinite adventures that this place can provide for you.
-Anna